On the other hand, a bad French kiss can be a major turn-off. The good news is that anyone can learn how to be a fantastic kisser with the right guidance. That’s where this site comes in. Look around, you’ll find a large collection of French kissing techniques and tips on how to kiss."
"Basic French Kissing Techniques for Guys"
rench kissing a girl can sometimes be a nerve-wracking experience (especially the first time). Don’t worry because we’ve got you covered. The tips and techniques below are all you need for a kiss that she’ll be telling her girlfriends about for weeks. Have fresh breath and a clean mouth.
French kissing a girl can sometimes be a nerve-wracking experience (especially the first time). Don’t worry because we’ve got you covered. The tips and techniques below are all you need for a kiss that she’ll be telling her girlfriends about for weeks.
Have fresh breath and a clean mouth.
If you really want to turn a girl off try kissing her with bad breath. Not only will it completely ruin any chances of a great French kiss, she’ll probably make up an excuse to go home shortly afterward. Also, don’t be surprised when she doesn’t answer your phone calls ever again.
Fortunately, the dreadful scenario described above is easily avoidable. You can start by practicing good dental hygiene. Brush your teeth regularly (don’t forget to brush your tongue) , floss, and use mouthwash.
Carry breath mints with you if you think there is even a slight chance you will be kissing. Avoid chewing gum. It isn’t as good at masking bad breath and it will also cause you to salivate more than normal, which is definitely not a good thing for French kissing.
Avoid foods with a strong or unpleasant aftertaste. Some especially bad offenders are spicy foods, garlic, onions, milk, coffee, and alcohol. Do we even have to mention how nasty Cigarettes are?
Make sure she's ready
An unwanted kiss is irritating at best. How do you know if she’s digging you enough for some lip loving?
Check out her body language. If she keeps inching closer to you, smiles a lot, plays with her hair, tilts her head frequently, or bites her lip, then she probably wants it. If she’s constantly touching your arms, legs, or face then it’s almost a sure bet.
Another sign that she’s ready for some smooching is if she tries to get you alone somehow. She might suggest that you go somewhere and “talk”, or ask to go somewhere that’s quiet.
Relax
Alright, you guys are alone, she keeps staring into your eyes. The kiss is eminent. It’s really easy to get nervous right now. Don’t!
Force yourself to breathe and relax. She’s not going to enjoy kissing you if you’re stiff as a board or shaking like a neurotic chihuahua.
Be confident
One of the greatest turn ons for girls is confidence. Even if you’re nervous inside, if you show a cool, confident demeanor she can’t help but be impressed.
Once you chose the right moment, don’t turn back. Act like you’ve done it a million times.
Note: Confident does not mean fast and aggressive. It just means to be decisive when you’re going to kiss. Have you ever seen two people try to kiss and they each turn their heads to the same side, pull back, go in again and possibly bump heads? Yeah, that’s exactly what confidence will help you avoid.
Tilt your head slightly
As you lean in slowly for the kiss, angle your head slightly so you don’t bump noses with her. If she’s already tilting her head in one direction, tilt yours to the opposite.
Close your eyes
As you get closer to her face, close your eyes. You should do this for a couple of reasons. For one, it can be kind of a turnoff looking at two huge crossed eyes up close. Closing your eyes also heightens the physical sensations and makes the kiss more pleasurable and intimate.
Start with a soft, closed-mouth kiss
When your lips meet give her a gentle kiss with your mouth closed but your lips relaxed. You don’t want to involve your tongue yet, but don’t act like you’re kissing your mom either.
Open your lips slightly
If she accepts your kiss and doesn’t seem like she wants to run away, try opening your lips a bit. Not a lot, just enough so that you could breathe out of your mouth if you wanted too.
Most likely she’ll do the same at this point. Try slightly varying the openness of your lips as you kiss. It’s not exactly rocket science and you’ll get used to it real quick.
Use your hands
Stressing about where to put your hands? That’s understandable. You can’t exactly leave them at your sides now can you? Well, you can if you want to look like a robot or an uninterested ape.
The absolute best place to put your hands during a French kiss is left hand on her hip, right hand slightly higher between her waist and underarm. Make sure your right hand’s not too close to her breast. You don’t want to be one of those guys. At least not right away.
That positioning might not be possible if you’re on a roller coaster or something. You may have to improvise. If that’s the case you can touch her back, her hair, the side of her face, her neck...it’s all good. Just don’t do anything that looks or feels stupid.
Use your tongue
She hasn’t sprayed you with mace and called the police by now? Fantastic. Time to get into some serious French kissing.
If she’s enjoying your open mouth kiss, take it to the next level by opening your mouth a little more and gently putting your tongue in her mouth. Tongues are very sensitive so the act of touching them will be very stimulating for both of you.
Don’t just go plowing around at the back of her throat. Just touch her tongue lightly and wait for her to do the same. Don’t worry, she will.
Keep the touch of your tongue and lips soft. Again, don’t probe madly around with a super stiff tongue. Follow her lead, though. If she’s kissing you hard feel free to give it back to her.
Don’t forget to breathe
Forgetting to breathe is one of the most common errors in French kissing. Remember to breathe softly through your nose. Otherwise, you might have to dramatically pull away gasping for air. Not cool.
Read her body language
Everyone kisses differently. What your last girlfriend enjoyed might be not be so well received with another one. The trick is reading her body language and adapting to what she likes.
For instance, if she pulls away or seems uncomfortable, you might want to slow it down a little bit. If she moans or kisses you harder you are definitely doing something right. Keep it up.
Practice!
As you get more and more experienced with French kissing, you’ll get better and better. Soon you’ll develop your own style and also be able to adapt to hers much easier. If you practice with one girl long enough, French kissing her will be as comfortable as hugging.
"Basic French Kissing Techniques for Girls"
Want to be an amazing kisser? Or maybe you want that cute guy to kiss you but he just won’t make his move? No matter the reason, below you will find everything you need to know for the perfect French kiss.
Have fresh breath and a clean mouth
You can start by practicing good dental hygiene. Brush your teeth regularly (don’t forget to brush your tongue) , floss, and use mouthwash.
Carry breath mints with you if you think there is even a slight chance you will be kissing. Avoid chewing gum. It isn’t as good at masking bad breath and it will also cause you to salivate more than normal, which is definitely not a good thing for French kissing.
Avoid foods with a strong or unpleasant aftertaste. Some especially bad offenders are spicy foods, garlic, onions, milk, coffee, and alcohol. Do we even have to mention how nasty Cigarettes are?
Don’t wear dark lipstick
Leaving red smears all over his face can be a mood killer for both of you. Plan ahead and wear a non-sticky lip gloss or flavored lip balm.
Flirt, flirt, flirt!
If you want to end the night with some lip-locking, you’ve got to let him know that you’re into him. Smile a lot and let him know you’re having a good time. Touch him and hold his hand. If you have an excuse to give him a hug, go for it.
Even if you are nervous, keep your posture open and relaxed. Otherwise he might take your nervousness for standoffishness.
Pick your moment
Guys love kissing, but they’re usually not sure if you want too or not. That’s a lot of pressure. If you know the timing is right, but he’s to shy to do anything, give him kiss on the cheek or a peck on the lips. If he seems happy about that you can go in for a bigger kiss.
You could also just come right out and ask him why he hasn’t kissed you yet. Just make sure you do it in a flirty, playful manner. Of course, that’s being pretty brave, but guys love it when a girl isn’t afraid to say that she wants to be kissed.
Tilt your head slightly
As you lean in slowly for the kiss, angle your head slightly so you don’t bump noses with him. If he’s already tilting her head in one direction, tilt yours to the opposite.
Close your eyes
As you get closer to his face, close your eyes. You should do this for a couple of reasons. For one, it can be kind of a turnoff looking at two huge crossed eyes up close. Closing your eyes also heightens the physical sensations and makes the kiss more pleasurable and intimate.
Start with a soft, closed-mouth kiss
When your lips meet keep your mouth closed but your lips relaxed. Hopefully he’s a decent kisser and won’t meet you with his mouth wide open.
Open your lips slightly
After the initial kiss, try opening your lips a bit. Not a lot, just enough so that you could breathe out of your mouth if you wanted too.
Try slightly varying the openness of your lips as you kiss. It’s not exactly rocket science and you’ll get used to it real quick.
Use your hands
Don’t just let your hands hang at your sides. He’ll think you’re not into the kiss at all. Touch his back or face if you want too. If you’re concerned that he might grope you as you’re kissing, you can hold onto his hands.
Use your tongue
So the kiss is going great and you want to take it up a notch?
Try opening your mouth a little more and gently putting your tongue in his mouth. Tongues are very sensitive so the act of touching them will be very stimulating for both of you.
Keep the touch of your tongue and lips soft. Don’t probe madly around with a super stiff tongue or move it around wildly.
Don’t forget to breathe
Forgetting to breathe is one of the most common errors in French kissing. Remember to breathe softly through your nose. Otherwise, you might have to dramatically pull away gasping for air. Not cool.
Practice!
As you get more and more experienced with French kissing, you’ll get better and better. Soon you’ll develop your own style and also be able to adapt to his much easier. If you practice enough, French kissing your guy will be as easy and comfortable as giving him a hug.
Advanced French Kissing Techniques
So you’ve mastered the basics of French kissing and want to learn how to really blow someones mind? Or maybe you’re in a steady relationship and want to try a few things to liven up your make-out sessions. You should find exactly what you’re looking for here in these advanced kissing techniques.
The Bottom Lip Bite
While kissing, slightly bite down on your partner’s lower lip. Be careful to use only your top row of teeth and bottom lip. Pull your head back after the bite and look in your partners eyes for a few seconds. Smile mischievously then continue kissing.
You can also bite the top lip gently if you like. This ones a little trickier, so make sure you and your partner are comfortable with each other before trying it.
The Upside Down Kiss
Do you remember the movie “Spiderman” a few years ago? Even with all of the action scenes in that movie, the most talked about scene was that upside down kiss.
Believe it or not, you can recreate this without hanging from a web. Just stand behind your partner while they are laying down or seated and tilt their head backwards. Aim for the bottom lip for best results. This kiss feels completely different from anything else. That’s probably why it’s so exciting.
The Sucking Kiss
Ad a delightful surprise to your French kiss by gently sucking your partner’s tongue into your mouth. Suck lightly for just a few seconds and then give them back their tongue. This feels wonderful when done correctly.
The Candy Kiss
Put a hard candy or mint in your mouth and hold it on your tongue. Give your partner a long, slow kiss and transfer the candy to their mouth.
After they recover from the surprise, ask for it back the same way.
Hot Cold Kiss
This is a fun and adventurous kiss. Take a drink of something very cold or very hot then quickly give your partner a long, deep kiss. They won’t be expecting the temperature change of your mouth, so it should be a pleasant surprise.
The Moving Kiss
This is a kiss that requires a lot of confidence and boldness. While kissing your partner, push them backwards into a wall or onto a sofa. Be sure to keep kissing while you are pushing them backward.
Surprise Kiss
You have to do a little bit of stalking to get this kiss. Wait until your partner is asleep or lying down with their eyes closed. Sneak up on them and gently kiss them with an open mouth. Intensify the kiss until they open their eyes and kiss you back.
French Kissing "Dont's"
Committing any of these French kissing sins can make for a bad experience. You don’t want to be remembered as the “slobber goblin” or “chester the molester” do you?
Don’t be afraid of a little tongue
Some people get pretty bashful about kissing with their tongues. Well this IS French kissing, so you should know what you are getting into. Keeping your lips pressed tightly together will make the other person have memories of kissing their grandma.
Don’t bite
Some people’s lips and tongue are more sensitive than others. Don’t bite the tongue, or they may not want to put it in your mouth ever again.
Don’t slobber
If you feel like things are getting too wet take a break and swallow. You don’t want to be remembered as the “slobbery kisser”.
Don’t chew gum
Gum isn’t as good as mints for masking bad breath. It will also cause you to salivate more than normal, which is definitely not a good thing for French kissing.
Don’t smoke
The majority of non-smokers are grossed out by kissing a smoker. It's like licking an ashtray. Bleh.
Don’t go crazy with your tongue
Moving your tongue around like a propeller is not going to be appreciated. Keep it moving slow and soft.
Don’t rush
Great kissers know that French kissing isn’t just a warm-up activity. It should be savored and enjoyed slowly.
Don’t grope
It’s a sad, sad little man that uses French kissing as an excuse to grope like a molester. Unless some groping is obviously wanted, make your hands behave.
Don’t get nervous
You don’t want to be stiff or shaky when you start French kissing. If you’re getting nervous, force yourself to relax and breathe. It’s only kissing after all.
Don’t forget to breathe
Forgetting to breathe is one of the most common errors in French kissing. Remember to breathe softly through your nose. Otherwise, you might have to dramatically pull away gasping for air. Not cool.
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